After having just enjoyed a couple of days away playing 'social' croquet and generally having a good time I'm back in Blogland this evening and wondering which of the many things for which I am thankful will make it to the postline today. Particularly given all the news coming the the USA at the moment. Then I read a post my Meike's Mum entitled
My Onkel Otto. I'm an emotional person and this post touched a lot of my emotions. Initially I did a long comment on the post and then I realised that I was not commenting on Meike's Mum's post but was abusing the privilege of comment by the use of too many of the word 'I'.
As CJ has said in his comment on the post when I was very young I had a deep relationship with my Uncle Eric and spent much of my life admiring him from afar (he married and we all but lost touch until his wife died when he was in his late 80s when we became close again). So I can well imagine the sort of relationship Meike's Mum had with Onkel Otto and I'm rather envious of the length of time for which she had it.
I am the same age as Meike's Mum (I was born June 1944) and I had a schoolbag similar to the one she was wearing on her first day at school. I think that my Maternal Grandfather (who had had a business making luxury leather cases) made it for me but on reflection I'm not sure - it may have been my Dad [hopefully CJ will come to the rescue because he remembers almost everything].
I was amused by the reminder that the girls used to sit in a bath in their jeans to make them fit tightly - before the use of lots of Lycra in the fabric. I had forgotten that. I didn't buy my first pair of jeans until about 2007 or 2008 after I came to live in New Zealand. It will come as no surprise to those who know me (and, I suppose, everyone else given that I was in my sixties by then) that I did not sit in a bath with them on!
However the most moving part of the post for me was looking at a photo of Meike's Mum's Onkel Otto and realising that the person looking at me in the photo (the one simply entitled 'Uncle Otto') was a friend from my University days: the shape of the face, the mouth and the expression were uncannily similar. I attended his funeral just under a year ago. Of course it wasn't Onkel Otto but had I simply see the photo out of context it would have taken me a while to realise that I wasn't looking at my friend.
So what has this got to do with being thankful? I am very thankful for the time I've spent over the last two hours this evening reflecting on my Uncle Eric, on my friend from University, on the sort of life that Onkel Otto and Meike's Mum's family had and on so many other things brought to mind by this post.
Thank you Meike's Mum.